From nervous speaker to confident leader – how debate transformed my approach

When I first joined the debate team, becoming a leader wasn't even on my radar. I was simply looking for an interesting extracurricular activity. After two years in speech and debate, though, I've noticed these skills helping me whenever I'm put in charge of a group project or team activity.

Last month, my history teacher assigned me as team leader for our semester project, and I felt prepared rather than panicked. Before debate, I would have been extremely nervous about this responsibility. The difference is remarkable.

One of the most valuable things debate teaches you is how to see multiple perspectives on any issue. When my friends struggle to decide on weekend plans, I naturally think of several options along with the pros and cons of each. This ability to consider alternatives makes decision-making much more effective.

The best leadership skill I've gained from debate is active listening. During debate rounds, missing even a small point from your opponent can cost you the match. My coach always reminds us that "our ears should work harder than our mouths." When I started truly listening to my soccer teammates instead of just waiting for my turn to speak, I noticed they began respecting my input much more.

Debate also teaches you to stay composed under pressure. After experiencing moments like blanking during my speech at regionals but still managing to recover and finish strong, other challenges like giving announcements at a school assembly feel much more manageable.

If you want people to genuinely follow your lead (rather than just going through the motions), debate skills are your secret advantage. I went from being hesitant to speak up in group settings to running for student council – that's not a coincidence!